Here's how SeekingArrangement.com tells it's Sugar Baby populace to identify a Fake Sugar Daddy.
It's like reading right into the woman's head when they post stuff like that out in the open!
You don't need to do the opposite of every bullet point in that blog post, but don't be the guy that get's IDed as a Fake Sugar Daddy because he's too stupid to change some stuff up.
- Don't promise her the world!
- Hey! This is your fake money dammit! Don't be giving it all away before you've fake earned it!
- Find out what she needs and talk about how much it would help her if that were taken care of. Never promise her anything, let it be implied.
- Pretend you give a shit about her as a person.
- Personally I rarely care about someone that I have never met so this is hard for me. To help I use Pidgin for my Instant Messenger program. You can use Yahoo, MSN, etc. all in 1 program. There's also a Notes addon that you can use which allows you to add/edit notes for each and every contact. I usually put a link to their profile from the Sugar Daddy site, then other details about them so that it seems to them like they are the only one I'm chatting with. Some of the details I keep track of are kids (not in a pervy way you fucks), her job, college major, or any other small details that you can bring up later to make her feel like she's the only girl you're chatting with.
- Don't start talking about sex right away
- Talk about her, make her feel like you want to get to know her, hell maybe you do...
- Don't demand she comes to you
- If you followed my rule you didn't tell her exactly where you lived anyways, so you can manipulate the distance between you and your potential date.
- I hate to drive so I usually ask them to meet halfway at a hotel (halfway must be fair, right?).
- You can "push the intimacy"
- What I mean here is you can say you want to get right down to sex without dealing with dinner, drinks, etc.
- The women know why they are there, they know why you are there.
- But never push the issue if she doesn't want to. Obviously you're not a gentleman if you are doing this but that doesn't excuse forcing yourself on a woman. That is far from the point of this. Rape is something only the lowest of the low do.
- The blog post mentions women should be wary of a Sugar Daddy that offers $xxx per meeting
- Hahahahahaha 20 minutes into reading your emails on one of the Sugar Daddy sites and you'll see that's what 90% of the women want!
- Hahahahahaha 20 minutes into reading your emails on one of the Sugar Daddy sites and you'll see that's what 90% of the women want!
You can do what you want here, plenty of the women are so desperate it doesn't matter too much what you say or do. Just make them feel like you give half of a shit and that you aren't a creep.